It is of utmost importance
2019年1月10日Student’s current personality profile:
It is of utmost importance to know what the student’s current personality profile is, before the counsellor starts the counselling process, be it a Career oriented counselling, or a Personality development counselling or Counselling to achieve Success in Life which is my Online counselling objective is.
Every student is a different personality. The student’s current personality is a combined result of following:
1) The Parents: Parents are the first Gurus of any child. Their behaviour, their attitude, their Personality, their way of handling different situations have a deep impact on the child. The child start imitating the parents especially the female child imitates mother and male child imitates father. The parents has a major role to play in the overall “Personality development” process of the child.
2) The environment: The environment in which the child is brought up plays a major role in polishing the student. The environment consists of :
a. The residing place neighbourhood of the student.
b. The school in which the student spends most of his time in childhood and the teaching faculty the child interacts in the school.
c. The other places where the student often goes eg. The coaching classes for his extracurricular and co curricular activities.
d. Family functions, week end get-togethers and parties, etc in which he interacts with his relatives, etc.
3) Some strong incidences: Every student’s personality gets moulded by each strong incidence the student and /or family undergo. Such incidence has a major impact on the child’s spiritual thinking and the child starts taking strong positions as a result of his/her experiences of the world during such strong incidences.
4) The media: Nowadays media to which the child is exposed to has achieved the prime importance in the overall development of the child. The movies the child watch ,the programmes the child watch especially on Television / videos or listen on radios produces a very deep impact on the child’s mind. This impact unknowingly starts impacting the process of child’s “personality development” without knowledge and also without much control of parents / teachers.
5) The Internet: I specifically did not mention the reading material in the media discussion above because nowadays the reading habits of students has been taken over by their browsing habits. The in-depth reading is slowly disappearing and more and more students are now spending their valuable time on internet browsing for what their current requirement is. Very few % of students read the downloaded content and try to understand it thoroughly.
It is of utmost importance to know what the student’s current personality profile is, before the counsellor starts the counselling process, be it a Career oriented counselling, or a Personality development counselling or Counselling to achieve Success in Life which is my Online counselling objective is.
Every student is a different personality. The student’s current personality is a combined result of following:
1) The Parents: Parents are the first Gurus of any child. Their behaviour, their attitude, their Personality, their way of handling different situations have a deep impact on the child. The child start imitating the parents especially the female child imitates mother and male child imitates father. The parents has a major role to play in the overall “Personality development” process of the child.
2) The environment: The environment in which the child is brought up plays a major role in polishing the student. The environment consists of :
a. The residing place neighbourhood of the student.
b. The school in which the student spends most of his time in childhood and the teaching faculty the child interacts in the school.
c. The other places where the student often goes eg. The coaching classes for his extracurricular and co curricular activities.
d. Family functions, week end get-togethers and parties, etc in which he interacts with his relatives, etc.
3) Some strong incidences: Every student’s personality gets moulded by each strong incidence the student and /or family undergo. Such incidence has a major impact on the child’s spiritual thinking and the child starts taking strong positions as a result of his/her experiences of the world during such strong incidences.
4) The media: Nowadays media to which the child is exposed to has achieved the prime importance in the overall development of the child. The movies the child watch ,the programmes the child watch especially on Television / videos or listen on radios produces a very deep impact on the child’s mind. This impact unknowingly starts impacting the process of child’s “personality development” without knowledge and also without much control of parents / teachers.
5) The Internet: I specifically did not mention the reading material in the media discussion above because nowadays the reading habits of students has been taken over by their browsing habits. The in-depth reading is slowly disappearing and more and more students are now spending their valuable time on internet browsing for what their current requirement is. Very few % of students read the downloaded content and try to understand it thoroughly.
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